Honoring The War Dead
By James Donahue
Today is Memorial Day, the first national holiday of the summer throughout the United
States. It was called Decoration Day when I was a young lad. It was always held on May 30, the day marked to honor the war
dead by Civil War hero General John Logan, when he served as commander of the Grand Army of the Republic in 1868.
The idea was for flags to be placed on the graves of all of the fallen heroes in hometown
graves, and for some kind of public observance to be held in the cemeteries.
It was always an exciting time for me and my friends because Decoration Day always marked
the beginning of summer vacation time from school. In our hometown we always had a parade. The high school band, the local
veterans groups, and just about anybody else that wanted to march got to be in the parade through the town. We kids used to
decorate our bikes with red, white and blue crepe paper streamers and sometimes had little flags taped to our handle bars
when we rode in the parade.
The parades always ended at the cemetery where the town dignitaries, representatives
of the veterans groups and local clergy got up on a podium and gave speeches. That was the boring part of the affair for the
youngsters because we did not have an understanding of the solemnity of what the day was all about.
Those were the years when just about every town had soldiers from the two great wars
and the Civil War buried in their cemeteries, with surviving friends and relatives still living. For them, the act of visiting
their graves and remembering them as heroes was important.
World War II was, technically, America’s last declared war against a foreign enemy.
The war machine we built during that conflict, however, was still in place, and the stage was set for constant warfare, whether
Congress voted to send troops into battle or not. Thus was plunged right into the Korean War, followed by the Vienam War,
and the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. We also endured the long Cold War years with nuclear arms pointed at Russia and their
arms pointed at us.
We lost a lot of good soldiers in Vietnam. I remember going to their homes as a news
reporter and writing their obituaries for the newspaper I was working for in those years. I was amazingly deferred from having
to fight in that conflict even though the draft was still active. I was not drafted because I was a college student. I was
married and the father of a newborn son by the time I finished school, and the draft board slid my name to the bottom of the
list. So I stayed at home and wrote about all of the dead classmates and sons of friends what came home in body bags. I also
was among the young Americans that grew weary of war and questioned our reason for being in Vietnam at all.
Because of the negative national sentiment, those soldiers did not come home as heroes.
And after Vietnam Congress did away with the draft so America switched to an all-volunteer army. Decoration Day was changed
to be Memorial Day and in 1971, the holiday was shifted from May 30 to the last Monday in May, thus turning the affair into
a three-day weekend. It then became a three-day holiday weekend that marked the start of the summer travel and spending season.
It was all for materialism. Few were left to remember or even think of the war dead.
Oh, there are still parades and speeches given at the cemeteries. But the parades are
not as grand and as exciting as they were when I was young. The marchers are usually members of the VFW and the American Legion,
mostly overweight old men stuffed into uniforms that don’t really fit them anymore. Instead of gathering along the street
to watch the parade and listen to the speeches, people are home roasting chicken wings, hot dogs or hamburgers on the barbeque
and watching some athletic event on television. It’s a three-day weekend off from the slave job. That is all that really
Wars aren’t fought now like they used to be. We don’t bring as many home
in body bags, at least proportionately to the number of folks living in all the towns. Most of the veterans are coming home
alive and extremely maimed or mentally damaged. Because of missing limbs they don’t march proudly in the parades, if
they show up at all. And most folks are no longer convinced that their "sacrifice" was made in defense of the nation…..because
Alas, when the last veterans of World War II are gone, the real meaning of Memorial
Day will be gone with them. And there is something very wrong about that.